
It’s ok to be anything you want to be…
I’ve never understood why women are pilloried for being highly sexed and/or promiscuous. We are all animals, slightly more evolved than other creatures; probably not as highly evolved as we would like to think!
I think regardless of gender, it is okay to be whatever you want to be sexually, as long as consent, honesty, safety, and communication are all involved. And all parties are of an adult age.
It’s okay to be vanilla, it’s okay to be kinky. It’s okay to be monogamous, it’s okay to be polyamorous. It’s okay to be sexually attracted to any gender. It’s okay to be straight, gay, bi, or whatever you align with.
Fundamentally, we all enjoy sex. Unfortunately like all other aspects of society, double standards are in play. The jock who fucks anything with a pulse, is lorded as some kind of God amongst men. The woman who fucks a lot, is denigrated and labelled a slut.
Well, you know what, I don’t even see the word slut as the insult that many hold it up to be. It’s all about interpretation and understanding; and the intent when using it. I think as long as we are adhering to the things I mentioned earlier, and treating people respectfully, then it should be of no concern to anyone else what you or I are.
It’s okay to be a slut. It’s okay to be whoever the hell you want to be. It’s okay to be you.
Just a thought…









