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It’s ok to be anything you want to be…

I’ve never understood why women are pilloried for being highly sexed and/or promiscuous. We are all animals, slightly more evolved than other creatures; probably not as highly evolved as we would like to think!

I think regardless of gender, it is okay to be whatever you want to be sexually, as long as consent, honesty, safety, and communication are all involved. And all parties are of an adult age.

It’s okay to be vanilla, it’s okay to be kinky. It’s okay to be monogamous, it’s okay to be polyamorous. It’s okay to be sexually attracted to any gender. It’s okay to be straight, gay, bi, or whatever you align with.

Fundamentally, we all enjoy sex. Unfortunately like all other aspects of society, double standards are in play. The jock who fucks anything with a pulse, is lorded as some kind of God amongst men. The woman who fucks a lot, is denigrated and labelled a slut.

Well, you know what, I don’t even see the word slut as the insult that many hold it up to be. It’s all about interpretation and understanding; and the intent when using it. I think as long as we are adhering to the things I mentioned earlier, and treating people respectfully, then it should be of no concern to anyone else what you or I are.

It’s okay to be a slut. It’s okay to be whoever the hell you want to be. It’s okay to be you.

Just a thought…

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My overthinking brain…

Why haven’t they replied to me? Why are they ignoring me? I must have done something wrong? Maybe they don’t like me? I’m so annoying, they don’t want to have to deal with me. I’m so shit at my job. Why can’t I do anything right!? Is he going to leave me? Why wouldn’t he, there is so much better out there for him.

The above, is only a snippet, of what goes through my head, every second, every hour, of every day. I am, an over thinker.

Originally posted by fider131

Some days are worse than others, some days I can manage. It’s exhausting, constantly over analysing everything. I panic, every time I send a message and it’s read, but they don’t respond. Or I get ignored completely, and/or the conversation is changed completely. When I’m with people, and I speak, I sometimes wonder if I actually said what I wanted to, out loud. When no one responds, until a few seconds tick by and someone says “oh sorry, did you say something?”. I become an attention seeker, I talk more, message more, then I panic. I’m going to get annoying, they’re going to get fed up with me. So I pull back, then I get mad when no one notices.

I feel alone, with all my thoughts. I feel confused, upset, angry. I feel sick. I get headaches. I worry about everything. Will I make it there on time? How can I get through all of this work? What happens if I say no? I just feel alone.

I can’t stop, I can’t quiet the noise in my head, there are times, when my mind is quieter. There are occasions when the noise isn’t as loud, and I’m able to get some form of respite. There is just so much noise, so much conflict, so much going on in my head. Even when I’m kneeling, it takes so much energy out of me, to focus only on my breathing and not think. All this overthinking, it makes me so tired.

I am just, so tired. I wish I didn’t care about what other people thought, but it influences my decisions, my thoughts, every day. I can’t help it. It just doesn’t stop.

My overthinking brain…..

- A xx

thelioness3

I could keep adding more to the list above. I can relate 100% …. I’m just so tired, drained and can’t flip off a switch to shut off my mind 😢

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Spot on! 😭😭😭

daddiskytten

The struggle is real and I’ve been left so many times that I’m scared to try anymore

Originally posted by holdingontoathread

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